Identity verification
Government ID is required before a profile can browse at all. No exceptions, no shortcuts — this applies equally to free and paid members.
Safety Center / Private protocol
Every member is verified and invested.
Not just paying — personally background-checked and reviewed before they ever see a match. Payment alone has never kept anyone safe; verification does. This page is what that actually means, in practice.
100%ID-verified
EveryReport read personally
01 — How admission works
Three checks, before anyone sees you — or you see them.
Membership is never granted on payment alone. Every profile, free or paid, passes through the same review before it becomes visible to anyone else.
Confidential background review
A private background check runs on every application. Results are never shown on your profile — they exist only to keep the platform honest.
Human review
A member of our trust and safety team reads every application personally. Nothing is approved by an algorithm alone.
02 — If something goes wrong
Blocking is instant and permanent, and requires no explanation.
Reporting is never ignored, and never automated.
Every report is read by a person on our trust and safety team — not silently closed by a filter. Blocking is instant and permanent, and requires no explanation.
03 — While you're here
Your practical privacy checklist.
Tools built into the platform, not bolted on after.
Photo watermarking
Every member photo you view carries a faint mark identifying you specifically — so a leaked or screenshotted copy is traceable back to who took it. Right-click-save and drag are disabled too. No web technique can block a photo of the screen itself; this makes leaking one traceable instead.
Black-only visibility
A Black member can opt to be invisible to everyone below Black tier — excluded from Discover, Search, and direct profile links alike. Silver and Gold can still request access; the member decides who gets in.
Blurred-photo mode
Your real photo stays hidden until you personally approve someone to see it — even after you've matched.
A quiet way out
Blocking is instant, silent, and permanent — the other person is never told you did it, and never sees you again.
Self-destructing messages
Black members can set any conversation to auto-delete after a chosen window — for both sides, permanently.
Private notes
Gold and Black members can keep a private note about anyone — visible only to them, never to the person it's about.